FAQ
PAY ATTENTION:
You think you have a right to send me messages about anything you please but you don’t.
You think you have a right to send me messages about anything you please AND get an answer that you like, but you don’t.
You think you have a right to comment on my life, but you don’t.
You think you have a right to comment on how i should be living my life and what i should be doing with my time, but you don’t.
And what annoys me most about all of this? The fact that when so many on you send me messages addressing these things you ALWAYS comment on my suppose ‘rudeness’ to getting messages described above yet you ALWAYS ignore me when i tell you not to do these things. You ignore me, send me messages that are rude and things i’ve ALREADY ADDRESSED and expect me to reply with kindness.
DO NOT SEND ME MESSAGES TELLING ME HOW TO RUN MY LIFE, WHAT TO EAT AND DO NOT COMMENT ON MY FOOD INTAKE. THIS INCLUDES THINGS LIKE “YOU DON’T EAT ENOUGH”. SEND ME A MESSAGE LIKE THAT AND EXPECT ME TO REPLY LESS THAN KINDLY. Now that i’ve told you this, i expect you to respect that. My dietitian, GP, nurse and counselor are the only people who can dictate to me how i should be eating and what i should be eating. I listen to them. I am not restricting in any manner, i am following my APPROVED meal plan.
Show me some respect. Respect the boundaries i have brought up time and time again and i will respond to your messages kindly and fully. I will address everything you send me if you respect me. If you don’t respect me and my boundaries, i consider that rude and so i shall respond in the same manner.
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Quick links:
To see my food intake posts click here
To see recipes made by me click here
To see anti thinspo and anti pro ana/pro mia posts and pictures made by me, click here
Posts about my mum and i click here
To see questions already answered click here
(as suggested) Click here to read hate mail
What is your sexuality?
Dyke.
Why do you post pictures of emaciated people if you’re in recovery/anti thinspo/any other form of this message worded differently?
BECAUSE I LIKE THE IMAGES. Because i find them interesting, because i understand them, because they are easy to relate to, because they are well taken shots. I am not using the images as thinspo. Scroll down further to see what thinspo actually is.
Why are you always naked?
Because i want to be.
How old are you?
Birth date: 20.6.1992. Work it out yourself.
What do people at work (stripper) say about your self harm scars?
Only two patrons have ever said anything about them. One just asked me why i had so many scars, i just smiled and changed the subject, the second guy was a club regular and as soon as he asked me he quickly apologised and said it was none of his business.
I wear thigh high stockings at work so my thigh scars are covered and my arm scars were healed enough that in the dark lights you could only see the scars if you were clearly looking at my arms. As i’ve recently had a relapse to SI i will be wearing elbow high gloves to work in order to cover the fresh scars/healing cuts.
Did your nipple piercing hurt?
Not as much as i thought it would. I’ve had facial piercings more painful than my nipple piercing was. I guess i just don’t have very sensitive nipples.
How do lesbians have sex?
Here, i fucking google’d it for you.
What is thinspo?
“Photos or other material intended to provide inspiration for anorexia nervosa or bulimia nervosa as a lifestyle choice.”
Thinspo is short for thinspiration. It typically uses images of underweight people (usually women) as inspiration to lose weight and something to aspire to along with quotes such as “nothing tastes as good as skinny feels” or “thinner before dinner” which basically encourages under eating/over exercising/purging behaviours.
It is not healthy.
Why do you block thinspo?
Because i do not want to be connected to thinspo in any way. I do not want them reblogging any photos or text posts i make, i do not want any connection.
What i feel are important personal posts: (oldest to newest posts from the bottom up)
Olivia (rest in peace) and an insensitive person
Synthetic weed and my night in hospital
Admitting secrets (trauma therapy)
Mum’s viewpoint of my anorexia
New meal plan- FODMAP diet trial
I spent the last 7 hours in hospital-severe constipation
Why i wad diagnosed with post traumatic stress disorder and borderline personality disorder
Borderline personality disorder facts and which apply to me
Borderline post about taking responsibility for my actions
“Celebrities that pretend to eat” rant
That time i cracked my head open
Mini rant about the breakup with Jes P
